I argued with my friend (no
need to mention the name for his privacy) last morning. But I really need to
write about it, because the topic is really important to discuss. So I want to
make sure everything is clear. This is not about the judgement about him as a
person (trying to avoid ad hominem
here), but about the way he think and see something. I don't want to ruin my
friendship because friendship is above everything (unless it about crime or
something, nah it's different cases). Above all, we're already mature, right?
No matter how hard the debate is not going to affect me. I'm grown up woman.
You are
still my friend, bruh. After all this storm, I hope it doesn't impact us.
So.. Here
we go. It started from him first. He made an Instastory on his Instagram. It's
about comparation between a girl he called slut (in implicit way) with a fried
chicken with price ten thousands rupiah. He said, how cheap the girl (from the
way she dressed) and even the food (with price IDR 10.000) is more expensive
than her. I'm shocked about his judgemental opinion.
And then
I said, "I hope you are talking about food, not about slut shaming,"
He replied, "My opinion was the second one" (with laugh emoji)
"Please don't do that" I said.
